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［SQL语句］

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UPDATE `llhy` . `lys_article` SET `click` = `click`+1 WHERE (id = '8'); [ RunTime:0.001070s ]

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SELECT title,url FROM `llhy` . `lys_article` WHERE (id> '8' AND status = '1' AND catid = '3') ORDER BY id ASC LIMIT 1; [ RunTime:0.000290s ]

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SELECT id,tag FROM `llhy` . `lys_tag_content` INNER JOIN lys_tag b ON lys_tag_content.tagid=b.id WHERE lys_tag_content.modelid=1 AND lys_tag_content.aid=8 ORDER BY id ASC LIMIT 10; [ RunTime:0.000334s ]

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SELECT total FROM `llhy` . `lys_comment_data` WHERE (commentid = '1_3_8') LIMIT 1; [ RunTime:0.000209s ]

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［其他信息］

WEB服务器：Apache

PHP版本：8.3.3

路由信息：模块( index )，控制器( index )，方法( show )，参数( catid=3&id=8 )

框架版本：2.9 查看新版